Break ups are not easy. Especially not if you are the one being broken up with. Even if you weren’t happy in the relationship or if you were considering breaking up with the person or if the break up is truly better for you, there is something about someone looking at you and basically telling you “You were not good enough to keep.” that just destroys a person. Even if that isn’t the explicit reason the person has broken up with you it always feels like it. Maybe they say it’s because you deserve better or because they’re dealing with a lot and just can’t be the person they want to be for you. Even that feels like “I am going through a lot right now and you are not important enough or worthy enough to be by my side as I fight my battles.”

However, usually when someone breaks…